Besides looks what
attracts a guy to a girl right off the bat?
What she’s wearing, what kind of outfit are we working with?
How she presents herself in the first couple of minutes, first impressions mean
a lot.
What turns a guy off
immediately? What turns a guy off over time?
Personally, being the most blackout girl wherever we meet
and if I am able tell this is going to be a pattern…. That turns me off. I’m
immediately not going to be excited or intrigued. Over time, being indecisive.
What turns a guy on
immediately? What turns a guy on over time?
Immediately, physical attraction turns guys on. If you’re
not physically attracted to the person how is it supposed to work? If she is
the funniest girl in the world and you are not physically attracted to her then
it won’t work. Over time is simple… someone that looks out for you, and is looking
to help you as much as you are looking to help them, returning the favor.
How does a girl get
the guy she likes?
Some guys like the chase and want you to work for them, some
guys like being pursued. Some guys like the cat and mouse game. Some are
straightforward guys, I’d rather know, and not play the game, it’s a waste of
time that you could’ve been with that person.
Do guys like girls
expressing their feelings?
Some guys do and some guys don’t. I’ll always ask if
something is wrong. And I’d like to know immediately if I have done something
wrong cause I wouldn’t have known otherwise.
When in a guy’s eyes,
are you no longer friends and become a couple?
AFTER THE TALK, hooking up doesn’t count, all is fair game
until the relationship is DEFINED, at least in this day and age.
Do guys feel guilty
about ANYTHING?
One night stands with
a girl that likes you: Yes but in a different way, men are better are
letting it go, acting like it didn’t happen, and moving on.
Friends with benefits,
knowing the girl likes you: No, because the girl has every ability to just
stop what is going on, the girl can ask where it is going.
Having more than one
girl: Yeah I think they feel guilty, but there is a rush to it.
Cheating: Yes, we
have human feelings.
Why are guys so
reserved with their feelings?
All guys aren’t. The guys that are reserved about feelings...
it is human male nature. It is part of the male culture that guys are more
hesitant to express their feelings, but it needs to be noted that some guys do
express their feelings and it’s the girl that has the issues with expressing
her own.
Even if guys THINK
they are doing nothing wrong, do y’all KNOW you are?
No, not necessarily. If the girl hasn’t brought it to my
attention there are plenty of instances that I would have no idea.
Let me in on some
insider secrets or rules… things only boys know/think about any kind of
relationship with a girl. Friends or Girlfriends.
Depends on the guy.
Speaking on behalf of myself, I like to keep my relationships
more secretive and keep it between just me and the girl it involves.
What are your
thoughts on LOVE? Do you personally think every guy wants to feel loved by a
girl?
I’m all for love and I think it comes in different ways…
over a long friendship, at first sight etc. I believe in it and it’s out there
for everyone to have. I do think every guy wants to feel loved by a girl,
sometimes I think guys put up a front, at the end of the day I think every guy
wants to be loved.
Thank you for letting me pick your brain, and I personally
have had many questions answered. I hope this clarifies things for other girls
as well. I also, hope that guys see the confusion we as girls have, those are
just a few of the questions. I LOVE LOVE AND FEELINGS AND LOVE J
xoxo,
B
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